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I noticed a typo in my last posting. I meant to write "I use to BE like them." Left out the BE. Hope I didn't offend anyone. When I reread it, it sounded pretty bad. Sorry.....................

The Edge

There are times that a memory of something in the past two years will come to me. Then I can feel myself start thinking of all that has gone on. I can feel myself start drawing toward the dark shadow that is always there lingering on the edge. It would be so easy to let it in and feel sad, depressed, sorry for myself, poor poor pitiful me. But, I have been there. Did not like it at all. Don't want to go there again. Will do almost anything to avoid it. So, I push away that dark shadow and get on with my life. There are so many things I have and am able to do. I need to concentrate on the good things. There are so many things I want to do and experience in my life. I am lucky. I have my dog. I take care of him and he takes care of me. I have a few friends and family who are always there for me. They have true compassion and won't let me wallow in self-pity. The rest of the people just don't get it. That's O.K., I think I use to like them. So, I pull myself up by my boot straps and say "Cowboy Up" and get on with enjoying life and trying to be happy. Hey, things could be a whole lot worse.

This pic is up Logan canyon. It is where my Grandpa Meldrum use to go fishing. Made me happy to stop and see this pretty little place.

Tree Party

Last Saturday I had a work party at my house. I invited family and friends. People came at 4:00 and we all went to work on my tree line. Along the edge of my property I have a long line of trees. Every time the wind blows twigs, sticks and branches fall off. Then I get to play my not favorite game of pick up sticks. {need to teach my dog how to play this game} To say the least, the trees need some major work. So I decided to invite people to come help me. And people came! We had Ken's pole saw and my chain saw and lots of rakes and pruners. Plus my tractor to push all the trimmings over to a big pile in open spot of field next door. Everyone worked really hard. We got A LOT done. Afterwards I had grilled hot dogs for them and everyone brought a potluck dish. I think it was a good time. There is still work to do on these trees but we got a good start and made a good sized dent in the job. Now I can keep up on what has been done and maybe do some on my own with the rest. Picture is of some huge parts of a tree that fell one night in July. It fell in the only spot on the whole place where it would not hurt anything but dirt! That's what happens when you pay your tithing..............

day after

So I took Max yesterday. The girl was not having a good moment. Which is O.K. She has earned the right to feel how she wants. Max was on very good behavior. He interacted with the other kids a bit. One cousin even sang him a song. Then wondered what that yucky smell was. I suggested it was maybe Max's breath. He came and smelled his breath and said yup it was. How funny. Max wasn't even offended. We should all be more like Max. Had a good visit with the girl's mom. She seems to be holding up, well. I use to play that disguise also. If we are needed we will return. Maybe the other kids can come out sometime and see my alpacas.

There is a mother I know who grew up in Burbank. Her youngest daughter {3} is very ill. She has brain cancer. Everything has been done and it is just a matter of time now. Actually the doctors are totally amazed that she has not died yet. I think of this mother, her daughter and the whole family. I wish there was something I could really do for them. I wish they did not have to experience this pain. Her older children now ride my bus. They are nice polite kids. One morning at the bus stop one of them had his thumb out like a hitchhiker. As he got on I told him he couldn't ride. My Daddy had told me to never pick up hitchhikers. He laughed. I t was good to see him laugh. Today I sent a note home with the kids for their Mom. I have felt like I need to take Max to go visit the little girl. So, I explained all this in the note. I also wrote if the mother did not feel it would be good that I would understand. {not everyone enjoys dogs like I do. Even if it is Max and he is special} She called me and thought it was a great idea. She had asked her daughter if she wanted a dog to come visit her. The answer was "yes". Later the daughter asked when the dog was coming. So, it is arranged. Tomorrow about 3:30, I will take Max over there. I'm not sure what will happen. I know he loves kids. I also know he senses thing that I can't. many times I have wished he could talk and tell me what he is seeing. We will be in the same room and I know he is looking at some one. So, we will go visit the little girl tomorrow.

Weekends

Yesterday as I was doing something. I don't remember what. I realized I don't dread weekends anymore. I'm not even sure how long it has been. During the week I would keep myself busy with work, my house and all the things that have to be done around my place. Usually about Friday afternoons I would realize the weekend was here. It would be just me at my place. I would get a ache deep inside me. Probably one of the reasons I try to go somewhere on weekends and holidays. Yesterday I realized I look forward to weekends now. I was surprised, amazed and thankful........................

Pictures.................

Just posting a few pictures from the last two years.

Today is Friday. It has been a good week. Jacob went and got my hay for me yesterday. Wish he would have paid for it for me. Oh well, can't have everything. I better be grateful for what I get. Now to get it unloaded. No rush on that, but it is suppose to rain. So I will just park my pickup and trailer in the pole building. Ha, ha fooled Mother Nature this time. Wow, to catch up on the last two years. I will have to do it a bit at a time. For starters, I am doing O.K. Have had bad days and good days. The good days do now out number the bad. During Sunday School one day something that was said got me thinking. I had been having a not happy week. Don't know why really. Just really feeling down and sorry for myself. Something that was said during the lesson {I don't even remember what it was exactly} got me thinking.. I am in charge of how I feel and react to things. I decided I did not like the way I was feeling and wanted to be happy. So, I quit feeling down and blue. I'm not saying I am happy all the time, but this has helped a lot. I know I didn't want to feel like I had felt that week any more. At times I can feel the fog trying to come over me. I try to push it back. It isn't gone. I can feel it lingering there, but if I refuse to recognize it and let it in some day it will go away for good. Both my in-laws have passed away. My father-in-law on May 10 2011 and my mother-in-law on Dec. 23 2011. My oldest son Kris got married {I know I'm still in shock too} on August 1 2012. Jacob has bought a house. {Nicer than mine. Something is wrong with this} Both are doing well and seem happy. They help me out a lot. I am always busy. I work hard so I can play hard. Always something to do around my place. And now I have my place and my in-laws place to take care of. Keeps me very busy but, when I do go play and have fun I do it very well!!!!

I'm back

I have decided to write in my blog again. So much has happened and changed since I last did. I had some trouble getting access to my blog. Let's see if this gets posted and then I will post more.